28 August 2008, 3:07 pm
I see a lot of people that post answers to other's saying that they are being used for a green card. I am married to a Moroccan and have been for 7 years. I have not been used for a green card and I lived in Morocco from 2001-2008. I even have 2 daughters with my husband. It is not impossible to be married to a moroccan and not be used, but I have seen dozens of woman used for papers since I have been married. Many times men do marry woman for papers. The sad thing is every one sees it but the woman. I mean why do these woman think that a moroccan man would want them if they are unable to find a man in their on country? I mean seriously I see these obese woman with very handsome men and I see handsome men with woman that are 15- 20 years older than them. When we see these people out in the street every one laughs and says to them green card ( usa) or changen (europe) first of all i would like to say their is no moroccan "fiancee" per se. There is no reason that this woman can not get married in Morocco, but they bring them on fiancee visa so it takes faster..you know why these men do not marry you in Morocco?? So they can divorce you and re-marry a girl from their country easy. If you actually get married in Morocco, it is difficult to get divorced and if the man wants to get rid of you it is harder. Moroccan men know this so they marry you out of their country. If you get married there you will actually be placed in the family book a long with your children. Speaking of children if you are married to a Moroccan for more than two years top and have no kids... be suspicious arab's are very family oriented and tend to have kids soon after marriage. I know this for a fact.I also know that when an arab and an american/european marry it ends in divorce most the time. The people are very different in culture. My parents even divorced because of this. My mom is irish/american and my dad Turkish/Lebanese. Also if you have a bi-racial kid they either tend to go with one culture or another. It is damn near impossible to equal the two out. I also would like to say that arab men do tend respect middle eastern woman more than they do white. I have arab relatives and friends (i have seen this) first hand. I mean my brother he is 25 been wth a lot of girls like any guy his age and all he says how "easy" white girls are my cousins say this as well. Also I can honestly say that all of my arab friends who are legally here in america, are all dating middle eastern girls. I mean they are young in their mid twenties and they are all still with the same girls they were with in high school with. So that brings up the point again, why do you think all of the legal arabs are with arab girls? They can have an american if they want but they prefer their own. I am not trying to make fun of white girls. I am half white...I am just trying to set them straight on some things here. I know both cultures, I am both cultures and mixing them is difficult. I have a few friends who are arab/white and arab/hispanic all of our parents are divorced but one. Marriage is difficult for any one but being from different countries does make it more challenging. But back to the woman being used as green cards, if the man loves you he will marry you legally in his own country. I even doubted my husband at first. He was only 18 and I was 19 when we married. I told him if he really loved me than he would have me move to morocco. Well that bit me in the ass because I have been living there since 2001. I just moved back to america one month ago to brig him here. Not because he wants to but I told him I rather our daughters start school in America. So now I am back here all alone getting things ready and dealing with immigration. So my point of this story is if the man loves you he will wait until you decide to bring him to america and he will marry you in his country and he will allow you to live with him in his country. In the seven years we were married he never asked me to bring him to america. He wished he could visit when I went home for holiday but he never pushed me to bring him here. That is how it should be. I also see that a lady Terrie G is on her a lot as well and she has had to defend herself a few times. I have seen people call her a green card..BUT i have also seen her post that her husband had her move to Morocco but she got sick and had to move back to the states. Health care is not very strong in Morocco so i understand why she moved, i refused to give birth to my kids in morocco. So if people see this pleas leave the girl alone if you were one to make fun of her. I have never talked to her in my life but she does try to help people often.... read more
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